I successfully diagnosed this issue finally and was very proud until I came back here to post about it and remembered that you had suggested this months ago.
This was indeed my issue. While i can induce a buzz by thumping on the decklid, all the noise I hear over bumps is from the headliner in the area of the third brake light. I found some scraps of Thinsulate and stuffed them back there. It seemed to help when thumping on the inside of the roof, but not the outside. It's pretty bad. I'll see if it makes a difference while driving but I'm not hopeful given the results shown in the video.
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