I think the idea is that if you only add downforce to the front or rear of the car it might upset the handling balance at speeds where the aero would come onto play.
It would be nice to know how much downforce each piece adds to get a sense of how much that effect is.
Currently I have the 5BW rear spoiler but I haven't installed my front lip and front wheel deflectors so right now I have a Frankencar , aka CF 0.5 package. I might hold off on installing the front stuff until I've taken it car to all the places I expect to be taking it routinely to see if the clearance for the splitter will be an issue.
If my car does a wheelie on the highway due to rear spoiler downforce only I'll report back if I survive.
For the 5BW, if you buy and install the CF1 and CF2 pieces, it's the same as if you ordered from factory. For the 4BW, the dive planes need holes and brackets mounting so it won't be the same.